When the guy your mother warned you about is exactly the guy you're looking for, the usual rules of dating aren't going to help you out much. Learn from one girl's mistakes--and she's made some doozies--as you find out what life is like for a single woman today in the world of dominance, submission, BDSM, fetish and kink. The personal ads and the chat rooms, the fetish clubs and the leather conferences--for the single woman whose sexual fantasies run toward the unconventional, the options are bewilderingly numerous. The rewards are tantalizing--love, excitement, unparalleled sexual thrills. But the risks--loneliness, sorrow, even violence--are real and frightening. These are hilarious, sexy and often very touching stories.