Once we confront our own mortality, Dr. Yalom writes, we are inspired to rearrange our priorities, communicate more deeply with those we love, appreciate more keenly the beauty of life, and increase our willingness to take the risks necessary for personal fulfillment.
Why would anyone write a book about suffering? Earnest in her pursuit, Dr. Jennifer Clark draws upon her near 25 years of practice as a Hospice and Palliative Medicine physician to convince us otherwise. Clark adeptly navigates the ups and downs, the twists and turns, and the pitfalls and plateaus of human development, asking us to reimagine the pilgrimage of the human condition.
With suffering as her compass, Clark takes us on a journey through the difficult terrains of fear and shame, ignorance and judgement, isolation and longing. In doing so, we are given a choice to see these painful experiences differently. Vital to human development, these sufferings reveal the direction we must take to progress through the milestones of dependence, independence, interdependence and transcendence.
In its timely publication, Suffer. offers insight to the possibility of a self-actualized life in this post-pandemic world. Using a modernized version of Maslow's hierarchy of needs, Clark flips the paradigm of suffering on its head. Guiding us through lands where storytelling meets science and mystery embraces material, Clark empowers and encourage us to Suffer. Suffer, well.
La gran Oprah Winfrey, presentadora y periodista norteamericana conocida en todo el mundo, y el Dr. Bruce Perry, psiquiatra especialista en trauma infantil, nos muestran en este libro cómo nuestras primeras experiencias infantiles pueden marcar nuestro futuro.
Alguna vez te has preguntado: Por qué hice eso? o, simplemente, Por qué no me puedo controlar? . La presentadora y periodista Oprah Winfrey y el renombrado experto en trauma y cerebro, el Dr. Bruce Perry, nos ofrecen en este libro un cambio profundo de perspectiva a la hora de pensar sobre nuestro comportamiento y el de los demás. Es hora de dejar de preguntar Qué te pasa? o Por qué te comportas así? y empezar a preguntar: Qué te pasó?
A través de la conversación entre Oprah Winfrey y el Dr. Perry, en este libro descubrirás cómo lo que nos sucede en la primera infancia tiene una gran influencia sobre la persona adulta en que nos convertimos. También comprenderás que las adversidades que experimentamos impactan en nuestra salud física y emocional y qué dice la ciencia sobre los patrones de comportamiento que nos cuesta tanto entender. Este libro te ofrece una nueva perspectiva para interpretar tu pasado, despejar el camino hacia nuestro futuro y abrir la puerta a la resiliencia y la curación.
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If you have ever wondered Why did I do that? this book is going to change the way you see your life. When questioning our emotions, it's easy to place the blame on ourselves. Through deeply personal conversations, Oprah Winfrey and renowned brain and trauma expert Dr. Bruce Perry offer a groundbreaking and profound shift from asking What's wrong with you? to What happened to you? Here, Winfrey shares stories from her own past, understanding through experience the vulnerability that comes from facing trauma and adversity at a young age. This is a subtle but profound shift in our approach to trauma--one that allows us to understand our pasts in order to clear a path to our future―opening the door to resilience and healing in a proven, powerful way.Does life seem overly complex and constantly overwhelming? Do you feel anxious from your obligations, duties, and cluttered surroundings? Would you like to have a more free life?
Don't compromise with your happiness. Good enough is not the life you deserve - you deserve the best, and the good news is that you can have it. Learn the surprising truth that it's not by doing more, but less with Less Mess Less Stress.
We know that we own too much, we say yes for too many engagements, and we stick to more than we should. Physical, mental and relationship clutter are daily burdens we have to deal with.
Change your mindset and live a happier life with less.
This book will help you if:
- You're committed to reducing stress in your life
- You wish to get rid of things and keep order around you
- You feel mentally overwhelmed, and you seek real solutions how to simplify your days
- Want to be a more understanding and patient friend or spouse
- You seek for real life examples on how to change your life for the better with the help of minimalism
Minimalism is an inversely proportional process: the less you do, the more will you have. And the less you keep, the happier you'll be.
What else will you get if you read in Less Mess Less Stress:
- A step by step guide how did I got rid of 75% of my things
- Real life examples and techniques how to reduce mental clutter
- Comprehensive guide how to make your relationships more enjoyable and less stressful
- Stories and tips from the best minimalists of the world, who are not superstars, but real people
- Finally, a monthly guide for 2017 how to keep the minimalist mindset active in your life
In Less Mess Less Stress you'll find real and applicable tips and advice. I will share with you my own story about decluttering my entire life. I made this book less strict; I approached it with humor, and genuine encouragement to make you feel you're among friends here. Because minimalism is not a must, but a choice without any pressure or negative consequence.
It's refreshing to see a lifespan text written by helping professionals for helping professionals. This is the exact textbook I have been searching for since I began teaching this course 15 years ago. I know my students will gain a lot of insight from the case studies and podcasts. This is an essential text for my class and I am grateful for all the supplemental instructional resources.
Jennifer R. Curry, PhD, NCC Shirley B. Barton Endowed Professor College of Human Sciences and Education Louisiana State UniversityProvides fundamental knowledge while challenging readers to question, evaluate, and consider contextual factors when applying developmental theories
This unique and refreshing text imbues lifespan development theories, concepts, and research with unaccustomed energy and life--while meeting the rigorous academic standards required for accreditation in the helping professions. Going beyond mere memorization, the book illuminates the contextual and cultural dimensions of human development by underscoring current and relevant research; considering the racial, social, and economic factors that impact human development; offering the perspectives of a broad spectrum of esteemed helping professionals; and incorporating case studies, podcasts, vivid graphics, and interactive activities.
Highlighting the ways in which developmental theories are applicable to contemporary life, the text uses case studies to demonstrate how clinicians can use their knowledge of development to support client growth, the expertise of multidisciplinary health professionals to highlight different developmental theories and approaches, and analyzes foundational theories against a backdrop of current research that factors in contextual and cultural dimensions. These include a focus on racial and social inequality, social media, children with special needs, persons with disabilities, poverty, and development in time of pandemic. Chapters are organized by lifespan development phases and begin with a case study emphasizing cultural and contextual considerations followed by relevant theories and models to conceptualize the particular phase. Supportive teaching tools include Instructor's Manual, PowerPoints, and Test Bank. Purchase includes digital access for use on most mobile devices or computers.
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In a society that values independence, self-preservation and individualistic thinking, we are missing the key to fulfillment: Connection through Attachment.
Simply, attachment is the way that we connect to each other. Without attachment, people feel alone to deal with challenges they face, which leads to distress, dysfunction and mental health disorders. It is possible to repair dysfunctional attachment, but first it is necessary to recognize attachment style, unhealthy relationship patterns, and the impact they are having.
Improve your client's relationships by teaching them strategies to feel more connected, reestablish trust, and restore positive emotions. Dr. Christina Reese, a recognized attachment and trauma professional, has created a comprehensive guide that explains attachment over a lifetime, and offers trauma-informed approaches to treat attachment at any age.
After tracking the lives of thousands of people from birth to midlife, four of the world's preeminent psychologists reveal what they have learned about how humans develop.
Does temperament in childhood predict adult personality? What role do parents play in shaping how a child matures? Is day care bad--or good--for children? Does adolescent delinquency forecast a life of crime? Do genes influence success in life? Is health in adulthood shaped by childhood experiences? In search of answers to these and similar questions, four leading psychologists have spent their careers studying thousands of people, observing them as they've grown up and grown older. The result is unprecedented insight into what makes each of us who we are.
In The Origins of You, Jay Belsky, Avshalom Caspi, Terrie Moffitt, and Richie Poulton share what they have learned about childhood, adolescence, and adulthood, about genes and parenting, and about vulnerability, resilience, and success. The evidence shows that human development is not subject to ironclad laws but instead is a matter of possibilities and probabilities--multiple forces that together determine the direction a life will take. A child's early years do predict who they will become later in life, but they do so imperfectly. For example, genes and troubled families both play a role in violent male behavior, and, though health and heredity sometimes go hand in hand, childhood adversity and severe bullying in adolescence can affect even physical well-being in midlife.
Painstaking and revelatory, the discoveries in The Origins of You promise to help schools, parents, and all people foster well-being and ameliorate or prevent developmental problems.
It is a courageous book about autonomy and nonconformism, about personal development and deep-seated empathy, as well as about the driving force of emotions and the importance of the search itself. It is a positive story that can reveal, for many, that the intense life they have lived was nothing but a process of becoming who they can truly be. Does your intensity scare others away? Do you know deep emotional darkness as well as peak experiences? Do you often feel like an outcast? Then the theory of Positive Disintegration by the almost forgotten Polish psychiatrist Kazimierz Dabrowski is the gamechanger you need. Crash Baby Crash is an eye opener, the ideal introduction to the ideas of Dabrowski. Chris Van Camp focuses on the tools the 21st-century reader can use to begin a self-examination. century reader can use to begin a long journey of self-examination.
In Love at Goon Park, Pulitzer Prize-winner Deborah Blum charts a profound cultural shift from how doctors discouraged parents from touching their children to when that belief was overturned, and in doing so proved the emotional and intellectual benefits of touch. Through studying neglect and its life-altering consequences on primates in his lab, Harry Harlow confirmed love's central role in shaping not only how we feel but also how we think. The story of an evolution of both a man and an idea, Love at Goon Park ultimately invites us to examine ourselves and the way we love.
In this second of a three-book series, Dorothy Husen gives readers a plan of action to stop the march of transgenerational trauma through their family, heal the emotional issues that keep them stuck, and free themselves to live the life they want to live-the one they were meant to live. Using a process that combines re-parenting therapy with mind-body techniques-a process Husen herself designed and uses successfully in her therapy practice-readers learn to expose and then repair misbeliefs formed in childhood that continue to rule their thinking and obstruct their progress in life. Chapter by chapter, step by step, readers will discover how to set their life on a course of radical self-acceptance and self-love that allows them to live life with curiosity and for the adventure it is.
Dorothy Husen is a marriage and family therapist who works and resides in Riverside, California. A companion video course to this book series, Re-Parent Yourself, is available for purchase on her website, www.dorothyhusen.com.