This could be you-or your sister, mother, child, or friend.

These stories are five-alarm warnings from real women around the world who have been FRAMED. Just like you perhaps, they had no idea what happens in the gender biased family court underworld-until they found themselves in a divorce or custody fight.

Dr. Christine Cocchiola and Amy Polacko are both survivors of domestic abuse who work with family court victims daily. This exposé not only validates the experience of millions of women-but also warns about what mothers are up against in these battles, the harms inflicted on children, red flags to watch for while dating, and ways to protect yourself during marriage.

If you are female, you can't afford not to read this book. We hope you'll gift it to the women you care about. They'll thank you later.

A first-ever how-to book to help abusive men change their behavior by changing their thinking.

End the cycle of abuse - for good. Authors Charlie Donaldson, Randy Flood and Elaine Eldridge uncover a proven action plan that violent men can use to change their behavior. Filled with insightful questionnaires and actual case histories, the essential how-to book Stop Hurting the Woman You Love, will help end abusive patterns in favor of healthier, happier relationships.

Break free from manipulation and gaslighting--once and for all.

Are you thriving in your relationship, or merely surviving? Are you the victim of constant manipulation, gaslighting, and deception at the hands of your partner? Do you find yourself constantly making excuses for your partner's abusive behavior? If you feel trapped in a relationship with someone who displays narcissistic or psychopathic behavior, you may be experiencing a trauma bond--a powerful connection you've developed with your abuser as a result of the danger, betrayal, or a power imbalance inherent in your relationship. It's important to remember that you're not alone and it's not your fault.

Written by an expert in narcissism and toxic relationships, this powerful guide is packed with the tools you need to finally break free from the destructive grip of narcissistic or psychopathic abuse. You'll learn how to spot manipulation tactics used by abusers to create and maintain unhealthy bonds, so you can better recognize, understand, and draw boundaries with your partner. You'll also discover insightful tips and practical strategies to help you end your relationship safely and build healthy relationships in the future.

Trauma bonding can have devastating effects. It can cause you to not only tolerate mistreatment, but even protect and defend your abuser simply out of a need to survive. This book clears a path to connect with and validate your authentic outrage at how you've been treated, so you can finally process your pain and move forward on your path to freedom. Go ahead, take the first step today.

In Bring the Girl Home: Surviving Domestic Violence and an International Kidnapping, acclaimed author and advocate Rebecca Wilson shares her harrowing story of resilience, hope, and the relentless pursuit to reunite with her daughter.

With unflinching honesty and raw emotion, Rebecca sheds light on the dark reality of abuse and the devastating impact it has on individuals and families. Through her powerful narrative, she breaks the silence and stigma surrounding domestic violence, inspiring others to find their strength and break free from the cycle of violence. As a leading voice in the fight against domestic violence and familial kidnapping, Rebecca firmly believes in the power of education, community engagement, and open dialogue.

Her unwavering dedication to this cause has earned her recognition as a leading advocate and a beacon of hope for countless individuals facing similar challenges. Beyond her advocacy work, Rebecca finds solace and rejuvenation in nature, spending time outdoors with her loved ones. Through her writing, advocacy, and personal journey, Rebecca continues to inspire and empower others to find their voice, stand against injustice, and create a world where violence no longer has a place.

Diane then said to her aunt and uncle, Benny told us we are staying with you for a holiday. Bet looked at Benny, who signalled for the girls to come to him. Looking at the two small girls, he swallowed hard.
When he had their attention, he said grimly, No girls, I have brought you here to live with Auntie Bet and Uncle Bertie, because if I had not taken you away, then they would have killed you.
Diane frowned, They? Who are they?
Benny replied, Your mum and dad.
Benny explained that when he came to collect them, their mother said, Take them, or I will kill them. I've had enough; I don't want them in my sight. Diane gasped and grabbed Jo's hand.
This is the true story about two small girls who suffered neglect and appalling abuse at the hands of the people who should have been caring for them; their parents.

Sometimes you worry that your partner is only putting up with you.

They make you feel like they are tolerating you, not investing in you as you are with them, and this makes you feel alone, even in a relationship.

While these two common warning signs may make you feel like something is wrong with you, they actually indicate strongly that you may be in a relationship with a narcissist, and you should not ignore them.

You may also find your partner to be very controlling, down to what you wear or eat. You may feel like you're walking on eggshells around them, not comfortable or at ease (this is a big one).

If this is the case, it's possible that you may be suffering from Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome. And now you have taken the first step towards recovery: seeking the truth.

Properly orienting yourself is critical for those suffering under a narcissist because, as you may have observed, the narcissist will often assert their reality onto you. This can cloud your judgment and make it very easy to readily accept behavior that is neither normal or healthy.

And worst of all, the abusive tactics of narcissists are almost always covert, making them difficult to spot, and giving the narcissist plausible deniability when confronted that can result in hair-pullingly frustrating arguments that seem to go nowhere.

Take a deep breath. If you feel guilty or at fault, it's only the narcissist's voice talking in your head. The sole purpose of this book is to unravel that web the narcissist has spun so you can have a clear vision of the condition, take the steps to heal from any trauma that has occurred, and prevent it from happening all over again.

Inside these pages you will find:

• The six surprising warning signs of Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome
• An easy trick to always spot a narcissist quickly and effortlessly
• Simple but indefensible weapons to disarm the covert narcissist
• The surprising truth about why empaths and sensitive people are drawn to narcissists
• The number one most powerful tool for healing from narcissistic abuse
• Specific recovery methods for the narcissists in your family, including narcissistic mothers
• Effective ways to protect yourself from future abuse and never tolerate it again

And much more...

Don't let a narcissist convince you that nothing is wrong Or worse, that you are the problem. You may have attempted to approach the problem before, and feel like there is no hope for change, but arming yourself with the facts can completely revise your outlook and change your results. Take control over how you approach relationships in your life Scroll up and add this book to your cart

WINNER OF THE HILLMAN PRIZE FOR BOOK JOURNALISM, THE HELEN BERNSTEIN BOOK AWARD, AND THE LUKAS WORK-IN-PROGRESS AWARD * A NEW YORK TIMES TOP 10 BOOKS OF THE YEAR * NATIONAL BOOK CRITICS CIRCLE AWARD FINALIST * LOS ANGELES TIMES BOOK PRIZE FINALIST * ABA SILVER GAVEL AWARD FINALIST * KIRKUS PRIZE FINALIST

NAMED ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF 2019 BY: Esquire, Amazon, Kirkus, Library Journal, Publishers Weekly, BookPage, BookRiot, Economist, New York Times Staff Critics

A seminal and breathtaking account of why home is the most dangerous place to be a woman . . . A tour de force. -Eve Ensler

Terrifying, courageous reportage from our internal war zone. -Andrew Solomon

Extraordinary. -New York Times,Editors' Choice

Gut-wrenching, required reading. -Esquire

Compulsively readable . . . It will save lives. -Washington Post

Essential, devastating reading. -Cheryl Strayed, New York Times Book Review

The book that changed the conversation about domestic violence-an award-winning journalist's intimate investigation of the abuse that happens behind closed doors, now with a new afterword by the author.

We call it domestic violence. We call it private violence. Sometimes we call it intimate terrorism. But whatever we call it, we generally do not believe it has anything at all to do with us, despite the World Health Organization deeming it a global epidemic. In America, domestic violence accounts for 15 percent of all violent crime, and yet it remains locked in silence, even as its tendrils reach unseen into so many of our most pressing national issues, from our economy to our education system, from mass shootings to mass incarceration to #MeToo. We still have not taken the true measure of this problem.

In No Visible Bruises, journalist Rachel Louise Snyder gives context for what we don't know we're seeing. She frames this urgent and immersive account of the scale of domestic violence in our country around key stories that explode the common myths-that if things were bad enough, victims would just leave; that a violent person cannot become nonviolent; that shelter is an adequate response; and most insidiously that violence inside the home is a private matter, sealed from the public sphere and disconnected from other forms of violence. Through the stories of victims, perpetrators, law enforcement, and reform movements from across the country, Snyder explores the real roots of private violence, its far-reaching consequences for society, and what it will take to truly address it.

Your healing is in your hands with this survivor's recovery workbook

It's time to turn the page and start the next chapter of your life's journey. The Recover and Rebuild Domestic Violence Workbook is an easy-to-use workbook full of healing exercises and journaling prompts to empower survivors of abusive relationships. The self-guided approach offers critical thinking, coping skills, and other proven tools to help you strengthen and rebuild from domestic violence--and move forward into a new stage of life.

Find answers about domestic violence and explore the types of trauma you may be dealing with in the wake of an abusive relationship. Work through simple exercises and thoughtful writing prompts designed to help you process your feelings--and let go of the ones that don't serve you. Discover advice for building healthy communication skills and navigating future relationships. Your story is just beginning!

The Recover and Rebuild Domestic Violence Workbook includes:

• Inclusive support--This workbook is geared toward survivors of any kind of domestic violence or abuse, with guidance you can use no matter your gender or relationship type.
• Proven techniques--Rebuild using effective therapeutic methods, from cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness practice, assertiveness training, and other empirically supported tools.
• All facets of healing--Find the helping hand you need to recover from domestic violence with exercises on combating negative self-talk, working through guilt or shame, releasing anxiety and anger, and more.

You are resilient--take steps toward healing with the Recover and Rebuild Domestic Violence Workbook.

Karin Walker and Dr Supriya McKenna team up to explain why separating from or divorcing a narcissist is a hugely difficult, draining experience, but one which follows predictable patterns. This book will will help you recognise narcissistic behaviour, prime you on what challenges lie ahead and provide practical insights and information on how to survive the process emotionally, financially and legally. You will be supported step by step through the legal process as well as through the difficult emotional journey that lies ahead, and shown how to work with your legal team to limit the damage caused by an aggrieved, hostile narcissistic ex.

The STOP Program for Women addresses the rapidly increasing awareness of domestic violence perpetrated by women and the need for quality treatment services. These updated worksheets and exercises, fully integrated with the group leader's manual, keep participants actively engaged in overcoming their abusive behaviors.

This second edition includes new sessions on the Five Love Languages, the Stages of Change, and Stake in Conformity. Updates throughout the text reflect an increased emphasis on trauma theory, attachment theory, mindfulness techniques, and gratitudes. Each session includes questions for reflection which can be used both during a group meeting and as homework, providing structure for recovery within and between sessions. Packaged as loose-leaf sheets, these handouts can be added, removed, or rearranged to suit the needs of any leader administering the STOP program.

What would you do with ten million dollars? For Doris Buffett, the answer was easy: give it away.

She spent the remainder of her lifetime doing exactly that and turned her inheritance into a legacy of helping others. One might think that it was only the money that made the difference, but by looking deeper into the lives she touched, it becomes apparent that there's more to the story.

At once both heartwarming and heart-wrenching, Where the Light Gets In explores the alchemy of turning pain into purpose and finding beauty in the most painful and broken places. With concrete examples of people who have done it themselves and a call to action for others to try, this book features true stories of women forging new lives free from the power and control of intimate partner abuse. Each received a grant through Doris's Women's Independence Scholarship Program, but what's most astonishing is that the true catalyst for change was a stranger's belief in their potential. Where the Light Gets In is a roadmap for anyone looking to discover their own unique gifts (hint: the pain points the way) and how to use them to transform their lives and the lives of others.

It's an exponential return on investment that has very little to do with money.

Navigating love has never been simple, but for author Holly Wells, it's been nothing short of an adventure. Set against the charming backdrop of northwest Indiana, All My Exes tells the story of how Holly, now a fiercely independant woman, has seen her fair share of romantic missteps, heartbreaks, and outrageous exes. Holly dives headfirst into the often unpoken side, yet comedic world of dating.

Through humor, heartache, and a few unexpected turns, All My Exes is a witty, relatable tale about what it means to keep moving forward, even when love seems to be moving backward. It's a journey of self-discovery, the importance of finding strength in even the darkest of moments, and the realization that sometimes, your best adventure begins after saying goodbye.

Perfect for readers who enjoy dark romance with a dash of real-life wisdom, this novel is for anyone who has ever had an ex-or two.

The Revolution Starts at Home is as urgently needed today as when it was first published. This watershed collection breaks the dangerous silence surrounding the secret of intimate violence within social justice circles. Just as importantly, it provides practical strategies for dealing with abuse and creating safety without relying on the coercive power of the state. It offers life-saving alternatives for survivors, while building a movement where no one is left behind.

Praise for The Revolution Starts at Home:

My joy and gratitude at the original publication of Revolution Starts at Home is now only exceeded by my excitement in the reprinting of this essential text. If we are to build visionary communities rooted not only in resistance but also in love, we need this book, and books like it, for survival. It is as simple as that. Walidah Imarisha, author of Angels with Dirty Faces: Three Stories of Crime, Prison, and Redemption

This book has brought me back from the brink of desperation many times. Its creative, real-world stories of interrupting intimate partner violence without using police or social services strengthens our community, builds our collective imagination, celebrates our resiliency, and pushes us to hone our practice. I keep a stockpile of this book on my shelf for gifting--it's required reading for justice seekers. --Shira Hassan, founder and principle consultant for Just Practice.

The editors of The Revolution Starts at Home have provided a landmark resource: an anthology by and for survivors of sexual assault lead by editors of color, all three of whom are revolutionary leaders seeking to deconstruct the structures that uphold violence in activist communities. For anyone who believes that the personal is deeply political in social justice circles, The Revolution Starts at Home is a must-read.- Allison McCarthy, Ms Magazine

The Revolution Starts at Home is a mirror to look into when doing the work of 'transforming ourselves to transform the world', as Grace Lee Boggs taught us. The voices in this collection speak from their own experiences, modeling vulnerability that, for me, was freeing as I turned to face the patterns of personal and organizational abuse in my life. This book is an offer towards wholeness, and can heal you if you let it. --adrienne maree brown, co-editor of Octavia's Brood: Science Fiction Stories from Social Justice Movements

The book isn't just about how social services and state intervention can leave already vulnerable communities more at risk when it comes to addressing interpersonal violence; the personal essays, real-world testaments, and tools provided...are about taking transformative justice to the next level and creating community and self-accountability. --Kjerstin Johnson, Bitch Magazine

Ching-In Chen is the author of The Heart's Traffic.

Jai Dulani is a writer and multimedia artist who has worked for racial and gender justice at the intersections of LGBTQ, youth, immigrant justice and anti-violence movements for over a decade in New York City.

Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha is author of the Lambda Award-winning Love Cake, as well as Dirty River and Consensual Genocide.

Are you traversing the challenging path of emotional turmoil, searching for a guiding light to lead you towards healing and empowerment?

Do you aspire to transform your relationship with past traumas, to turn each day into a celebration of strength and self-recovery?

Is it time to embrace a future where emotional liberation and inner peace are not just dreams, but your reality?

This book is more than a mere guide, it's a lifeline, reaching out to you in the depths of emotional turmoil. Imagine it as a guiding star in the darkest night, leading you towards a life where self-awareness blooms and inner strength is unshakable. It's not just an invitation, but a heartfelt call to embark on a journey of profound transformation. Within these pages, find not only solace but also a powerful awakening of peace and empowerment that has always been a part of you, waiting to be rediscovered. Embrace this opportunity to heal, to grow, and to emerge with a renewed sense of hope and clarity.

Within these pages, you'll uncover:

• PATHWAY TO EMPOWERMENT: Navigate through the complexities of narcissistic abuse, finding strategies to emerge stronger and more resilient.
• CLARITY AMIDST CONFUSION: Cut through the fog of gaslighting, reclaiming your confidence and sense of self.
• STEPS TO INDEPENDENCE: Move beyond the confines of codependency, fostering relationships that are healthy and fulfilling.
• GROWTH THROUGH ADVERSITY: Learn to manage and thrive despite the challenges of Complex PTSD, gaining tools for lifelong resilience.
• INSIGHTFUL GUIDANCE: Embark on a journey informed by deep understanding and compassionate insights into the nuances of emotional recovery.

This book is your gateway to more than just coping; it's a passage to rediscovering joy, peace, and strength in every aspect of your life.

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One in three women and one in four men have experienced some form of physical violence by an intimate partner, according to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence.

Interpersonal Aggression: Complexities of Domestic and Intimate Partner Abuse is a practical guide that provides necessary information for anyone who knows or works with victims/survivors -- attorneys, law enforcement, social workers and therapists, family and friends concerned about loved ones, members of the judiciary and clergy-- basically any helping profession.

Author CarolAnn Peterson takes the reader through the various aspects of a victim's encounters, the history of domestic abuse, the legal system and law enforcement, workplace domestic violence, religion, the intersection of the LGBTQ+ community and intimate partner abuse, domestic abuse in the military, how culture influences victims' decisions, batterers/abusers and intervention programs/counseling, and the impact of domestic violence on health and mental health of victims and children.

Dr. Peterson examines why victims stay and when they leave, what help is available, why abusers abuse, and what happens to the children, among other important topics. She offers comfort to anyone working with victims of domestic and intimate partner abuse -- no matter the role they play.

Being in a relationship with a narcissist is confusing and painful, especially if you feel like God approved of your relationship. In this empowering guide, Shannon Alder draws on extensive research and personal experience to help you understand narcissism and rebuild your faith and sense of self. No matter what you've experienced, you can reclaim your purpose as a daughter or son of God.

The Bible DOES allow divorce for domestic abuse. This book explains the scriptural dilemmas of abuse victims in regards to separation and divorce. It examines the scriptures and scholarly research, showing exactly how and why Scripture allows victims of abuse to divorce their abusive spouses. It also address whether remarriage is permissible for a divorced Christian

The Bible distinguishes between 'treacherous divorce' and 'disciplinary divorce'. Disciplinary divorce is permitted by the Bible -- this applies in cases of abuse, adultery or desertion, where a seriously mistreated spouse divorces a seriously offending spouse. Treacherous divorce is condemned by the Bible -- it occurs when a spouse obtains divorce for reasons other than abuse, adultery or desertion.

Not Under Bondage can be read by pastors, academics, survivors of domestic abuse, and their friends and family.

Please note: since writing this book, Barbara has changed her mind about church discipline in relation to divorce for domestic abuse. So read the book in conjunction with her article cryingoutforjustice.blog/2013/10/04/church-discipline-and-church-permission-for-divorce-how-my-mind-has-changed/

For more info on domestic abuse in a Christian context, go to cryingoutforjustice.blog/faq

He Never Hit Me A True Story - Jane Bryant If you're ready to be enlightened and help end abuse, read this book. It will hit your heart and soul and show you the way out. Mark Victor Hansen #1 Best Selling Author: Chicken Soup for the Soul Series (Over 100 Million copies worldwide) He Never Hit Me gives a real-life glimpse into what it's like living with daily emotional abuse. She had wanted him to hit her, to strike her, to bruise her skin. No, she didn't want the pain or the humiliation, but she wanted the outside of her body to match the inside of her shredded heart. Then she would have something to show Then everyone would know how much he really hurt her and the children, and she would have something tangible to hold on to and hold up to the world. But he was far too cunning for that; and he knew that what he could do to her was much worse... The invisible scars he inflicted reached her marrow and rooted in her soul... As Jane describes the events of her marriage, readers will gain insight into their own lives and relationships - or the lives of friends and loved ones - who may be going through similar circumstances. They will find courage in watching Jane gain the strength to get out and stay out. The first step in healing is awareness, and He Never Hit Me is a powerful mirror for far too many women's unseen wounds. Joel Brandley Therapist MS, MC, CMHC. A most powerful tool for those who are experiencing emotional abuse and fear in intimate relationships. Lives can be saved and we know that unless trained intervention takes place, the abuse escalates. This book provides an opportunity for the people to see themselves in a wide variety of circumstances whether as a parent, a family member, friend, or one experiencing the abuse, and find the strength to take action to feel safe, change, and move forward. Judy Kasten Bell Retired Executive Director, Utah Domestic Violence Council

The Power of Reverse Psychology: Outsmarting Narcissistic Tactics for Desired Outcomes

Is a groundbreaking guide that unveils the secrets to navigating the complex world of narcissistic relationships with confidence and strategic finesse.

Drawing upon extensive research and practical expertise, this book offers a comprehensive roadmap to effectively outmaneuver the manipulative tactics employed by narcissists and achieve the desired outcomes you seek.

Through a detailed exploration of psychological strategies, readers will learn how to harness the power of reverse psychology to shift the dynamics in their favor.

Discover the art of;

Subtly influencing narcissists by highlighting the status quo,

Strategically planting suggestions, and leveraging their need for validation.

With a focus on ethical considerations,

This book provides invaluable insights into balancing manipulation with responsible boundaries,

Ensuring that your actions remain within the realm of ethical conduct.

Explore the importance of timing and persistence in the face of narcissistic defenses, and gain practical tools for maintaining emotional resilience and perseverance throughout your journey.

Establish firm boundaries to protect yourself and prioritize self-care and emotional well-being, effectively managing your own responses while minimizing harm.

With each chapter, you will unlock new strategies and techniques that empower you to navigate long-term relationships with narcissists, celebrating successes along the way.

This book goes beyond traditional self-help guides by presenting a comprehensive, informed approach that combines psychological understanding with practical application.

It equips readers with the knowledge and skills to recognize personal growth and empowerment throughout the process, transforming challenging relationships into opportunities for personal development.

Empower yourself with The Power of Reverse Psychology: Outsmarting Narcissistic Tactics for Desired Outcomes and embark on a transformative journey to reclaim your power and achieve the outcomes you deserve.

Are you tired of being manipulated by narcissistic individuals?

Do you yearn for a way to take control of your relationships and achieve the outcomes you desire?

This comprehensive guide provides you with the tools, strategies, and insights you need to outmaneuver narcissists and emerge victorious.

Imagine the satisfaction of turning the tables on manipulative individuals, watching as they unwittingly fall into your carefully crafted plans.

With this book as your trusted companion, you'll learn the art of subtle influence, ethical boundaries, and effective communication techniques that will leave narcissists puzzled and you in control.

Whether you're dealing with a difficult boss, a challenging partner, or a toxic family member, The Power of Reverse Psychology offers a roadmap to navigate these treacherous waters.

It's time to prioritize your well-being, establish firm boundaries, and celebrate your successes.

Don't let narcissists dictate your life any longer.

Your journey to reclaiming your power and achieving the outcomes you deserve starts now.

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An intimate, linked, lyrical essay collection focusing on the longer-lasting effects of trauma and PTSD on survivors--challenging a culture in which violence against women is normalized and illuminating the nonlinear, complex nature of recovery--from the acclaimed author of Goodbye, Sweet Girl

The trauma of surviving an abusive marriage didn't make Kelly Sundberg stronger. In fact, it nearly broke her. But leaving the abuse behind was not the end of the story but the beginning of a new one. In that journey, Sundberg learned in ways both good and bad, that one doesn't necessarily get to leave abuse behind. Sometimes, everywhere you go, the memories of the abuse go with you. First learning to coexist with her rage and then turn that rage into strength and power, Sundberg's journey to alchemizing her suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder into post-traumatic stress growth was neither easy nor simple. But far from bleak, her story provides vital insight into the little-known recovery process, and how healing is possible.

A narrative following a process of discovery as Sundberg's personal story is juxtaposed against established research, The Answer Is in the Wound offers a redemptive arc for trauma survivors, arguing for healing through an acceptance of their new state of being. Sundberg uses metaphors like the act of erasure--shown in erasure poetry created from her abusive ex-husband's apologetic emails--and includes theories from psychiatrists and researchers like Judith Herman, Bessel van der Kolk, and Peter A. Levine to construct a balanced meditation on trauma and the imprint it leaves.

For readers of In the Dream House by Carmen Maria Machado and The Empathy Exams by Leslie Jamison, The Answer Is in the Wound is a beautiful, devastating, and nuanced examination into embracing a new reality after trauma and finding power and beauty in it.